!!!!Excess!!!!
If we are not piling on the pounds, we are filling our pantry to the brim, the freezer is bursting at its seams and our clothes bought just a month ago are stashed away behind an enormous pile of “to be worn”. It’s the age of “Amazon” and “Online shopping”. Running out of maple syrup, […]
Financial “freedom”
So many of us identify a good life with an “option” that comes from having “more than” money. We want financial security. We want to know that our future is safe, and so we “save”. We know life is precarious or can be, so we try and outlive it by putting in actuarial buffers in […]
Independent but Co-dependent ..
It is almost becoming a fact of life now to be anything but your authentic self; not for want but for fear of being that. We simply cannot fathom the courage to be us and being true to us is a far cry. But why? Fear of abandonment rejection non acceptance and being alone. We […]
Taming our instinct to survive
We have evolved from reptiles to mammals as has our brain. The brain we come with at birth is what we left off with from planet animal. A newborn baby knows how to route for the milk, poop, sleep and then some. This will continue for sometime and then as the brain develops depending also […]
Anatomy of Guilt
“Oh guilt oh guilt wherefore thou art be thou be bent at destroying cells of me lain lifeless tired bare bereft of soul for a past long gone still renders too fearful me to be” We are tired. We ache. We pain. We make amends. We try. We cry. We learn. We […]
No Will No Way!
We all have a Will, so it appears. But if how we Will, depends on our persona, then surely all we are doing is, obeying and following what feels natural to us, thinking we are enacting a freedom of choice. If our persona is tainted or layered by conditioning so that we are habituated in […]
Breaking a child’s Will for the sake of obedience
Why are we so bent on getting our children to be this or that and listen? Yes I get the whole thing about being under pressure trying to fit in what we want to do in the whole day meal preps making it to appointments day outs adventures and making time for our self. Yet, […]
Oneness – do I lose my sense of self to all?
What happens when we “fall” in love? Do we lose a sense of ourselves? Do we become one with the other person? Have we created a third energy of us or is it a natural symbiosis? Well, the truth is, we don’t really lose the sense of our self but gain instead a recognition of […]
From spirit to mind to the physical
Why are all our efforts towards manifesting our realities failing or getting delayed? Do you know that there are many layers to your mind which includes ideas and thoughts which we shape with our ideals and values? Where do these come from? What feeds the mind? For us to have an idea about our next […]
We all tell stories we want to share …
Ever since a child talk to themselves or to an imaginary person? Can you remember whether the child sought your attention that you did not give and so they went and formed another person in their imagination? Maybe it is not imagination? Perhaps there is another person there that we cannot see because we do […]