Stop trying to find PEACE!
Okay so one more sleepless night and that’s it I give up. Or do I? A genie comes to me and asks me to make a wish. I pause. I wait for the wish in me to emerge. I realise I have nothing to wish for not even a full nights sleep. Nada. I am […]
Why do I feel so NUMB?
If you are lost for zeal enthusiasm and that buzz for life you could do with “stimulation”! Are you reaching out for foods with a kick? Maybe something exhilarating to do? Is one orgasm simply not cutting it? Your sex life feels like it needs a do over? Or maybe the mantra you have been […]
Conscious communication starts within
Are we avoidant or anxious? When a baby graduates into toddlerhood when the sense of self begins to emerge, it’s a critical period not because it’s so darn hard on carers, not to mention on the little ones who are stuck incommunicado and we, lost in translation, BUT, because, this is when we can either […]
Why are we here? Surely not to just live laugh or love?
Can’t be that simple because even when life is full of joyous moments with piles of laundry and love making on the washing machine from time to time a la carte with the toddler whining away forget another missed nap, life just doesn’t seem to sum up to anything unless ???? What is this unless? […]
The real reason people “ghost”!!!
I have often wondered what the whole deal is about instant messaging and why it’s become a trend now to “choose” whether or when to respond to these. When did instant messaging in which ever form it takes become the platform we use to exhibit our self worth?!? When mobiles were a novelty we all got […]
When the Pressure is Off
What happens when you have no pressure nobody to “please” and therefore no external reference to anything you do day or not? A bit like retirement. All your needs are met. You live like you are on holiday since there is no job as such to go to and everyday is a possibility. Do you […]
The animal I am is Safe
What happens to babies who are fed and sleep when they need to but deprived of touch? Mostly, they don’t make it, sadly. It is called the failure to thrive and the death is quite sudden too. The infant hasn’t had half a chance to thrive despite all its physical needs being met. Some will […]
Animal human soul and spirit – which which is which!
Within us lives the animal the human the soul and the spirit. The animal part of us is the one that craves safety. It’s the part of us that is the hunter and gatherer. The distinctive part of the animal is fear. That part of us needs food for keeping the body of the animal […]
Don’t Settle for Less Than Your Intention
Notice how you set the intention of co creating and suddenly what comes up is a sort of “resistance”. Just for a moment imagine the changes if any you might want to make to your life right now. Imagine that these are all made. Is there anything that niggles even if it’s just a very […]
Why Me?
Just how many times do we find ourselves asking this question “why me?” – it portends of an even deeper quest into really why I am the way I am, yet when we ask what we are really saying is, “why can’t I be “normal”; why can’t I have it all; why does this happen […]