When we reach a place of equilibrium and homeostasis we are no longer in want or wait. Not only have our needs been met, even our wants and desires have finally evaporated. You just don’t feel there’s anything left for you to be wanting and all this is happening irrespective of your life situation and circumstances or other people.
This is why so many preach and teach about gratitude having the
power to manifest a multitude of blessings. You start by fake affirmations because let’s face it you don’t really feel all those things you chant daily, it’s a mental exercise you do like going to the gym, just to train your mind. Because, to really be there means not to even have anything to affirm. You simply are that.
Be that. Live that. You are that.
Get an arrow and point it at yourself any time you feel any form of dissonance. Trace its root. Trace your needs wants and desires.
If you have none and you are not dissociating or numb, and feel invigorated with life and love love life, then congratulations for coming so far. If not, then an even bigger feat to you for trying so hard at unwrapping and getting to know your crap instead of offloading it onto someone else’s shoulders.
Either way, you are where you are, because YOU are.