Because we are all vibrating
At the same frequency as long as we share time space and distance
“Oh I don’t speak to her anymore,”, “oh really, I thought you were getting on all well?” “I don’t know it’s just this vibe I get, just don’t want to be in the same space even if it’s the head.” Hmmm, could it be your vibration has changed? Did someone change the radio settings?
We can save ourselves a lot of drama including adding more layers in our pain body /emotional radar when we accept others at face value and let things be. We don’t need a reason not to resonate with others. It doesn’t even have to come down to not liking them or getting wound up about something. No. It is simply a case of having moved along the vibratory trajectory. That’s all.
Your inside world or the others inside world have caused a change that means you have either gone off one another or otherwise. But our ego of mind will not accept that because to make peace and to feel that the changes are merely internal and reflective of our inner state would be akin to accepting defeat and placing personal responsibility for our feelings. We don’t want to do that, as we are used to seeing the problem as outside of us. We don’t want to look it over on our insides because that’s a lot of work and we lack the zeal or even motivation to look – after all it doesn’t give us that instant gratification or sense pleasure that we have wrongly identified as our compass.
Unless something gives us the results we imagine to be the ones we want, we won’t look. We think because we are spiritual we are good, and that nothing negative happens to us. We think plants only flourish in positive places. We even develop a false sense of aggrandisement that says we are different and therefore entitled. We are part of a spiritual community or a search and therefore entitled to some sort of special treatment. We don’t even know we do this.
We alienate each other. We create a make believe world in our mind that compartmentalises other people. Those in your inner circle, those you will speak your truth and share. It’s totally bizarre and ridiculous what we do now in the name of spirit!!
We want teachers that pamper us. Dare the teacher poke at us or even try and tease our ego self out, we simply wont carry on with the school. It’s too much for our lazy arses to get to the gym of us but to get to the gym across the road even in a different suburb is one pleasure we simply cannot do without. Because that gym gives you instant results and your inner gym takes time.
So, depending on where you are on the continuum of consciousness, your inner world will continue to be reflected on the outside. With a pinch of awareness you might be able to see that the reaction that someone else causes inside of you is your own inner world telling you what in you needs to get back into wholeness.
And don’t kid yourself into being joyful when really you are a state of being far from that within. Inside you really cry for a hug, to live on your terms, to feel free and love.
Getting real, down and dirty are the cornerstones and hallmarks of a real genuine wake up call into the crevices of your inner world. Otherwise, the others will continue to affect your moods, you will simply move from one drug to another, and no real change will occur. Perhaps, it’s not change you are after. Maybe you just want to sit your lazy arse down and let the others do the work for you. Maybe.
Maybe.