Why are we always so bent on making our happiness or even peace subject to externals? If I live in the countryside I will be happier. I have a son but I want another baby I will feel more complete. I wish I could just have a bit more money not because I am attached to it but for all the good things I can do like help the poor! We can add more such statements – just listen to the chatter in your mind daily and have a look at your cosmic order list.
Yes it’s great to realise that we can co create but it’s not so when we hinge our entire life on that visualisation or creative process. Our happiness happens right now. We feel peace right now. And that is borne of itself within our organism as opposed to because of the happening of a situation which we aspire towards.
There is a whole lot of life that happens. We have life situations. Needs wants desires. We have ideals and ideas.
And it’s okay to have all of these. What corrupts the entire process of co creativity is when this comes from a place of lack as opposed to abundance. You have to already feel you are enough right now. That feeling is not even a feeling but a constant state of being. If you like it’s your status quo that never changes but rather stays with you watching life unfold and remain untouched and unruffled by this.
The co creation happens very easily when we proceed from a place of fullness as opposed to I want because I don’t have or even I want to have so I can feel a particular state of mind or perceived sense of satisfaction.
We are either peace or we are not. We are either complete or not; and we are either whole or fragmented. Our emotions are a compass but even these are momentary. What stays is that sense of stillness, pure intelligence and pure consciousness. The whole gamut of materiality is a mere illusion in the sense that it fools us into creating a false sense of security should we “secure” our hearts desires. It’s a fallacy and one that really does become a self fulfilling prophecy.
It is not fulfilling at all because one wants need or desire leads to another and another and a whole lot of another mane different designer.
Be your own patron your own hero. Get to know why your heart desires what it does. Aren’t you just happy right now? Okay so maybe happy is not the right word as that too moves. How about that feeling of “content” “bliss” and “enlightened stillness”? It’s there and only possible to live it when you are ready and willing to really take a good look at yourself.
Till then anything we do is a mental exercise – just the way we train our dogs so we train the mind giving it a different paradigm or mentality to work from.
We are so used to getting ourselves instantly fixed that to imagine a slow brew giving a healthy harvest is simply asking for too much. We are too hurried. We only want to achieve. And with the vast amount of information available now we are all pseudo healers gurus and what not. But did we put the work in? Nope.
Just downloaded sheets of information and then ape it all like monkeys 🐒 plastering over and over.
Look underneath and let yourself go, it’s okay to crumble because only without the plaster can you be in your natural state which will then lead you onto finding the root of the state and finally into wholeness which brings your that feeling of “ahhhh”.
Can you really let go and allow yourself to fall apart?