Falling in love🥰

Why do they call it that? Perhaps because the mind kinda dives falls and then we can feel ourselves as love and in turn see love manifest all around us? Can love and the mind coexist? Is the mind necessary to fathom love? Is love who we are and what makes us want to create – hence calling the act of procreation – love making? Because we are making love. 

We hear this a lot that to manifest love you must fall in love with life itself and before that happens with your self. Yet to love thyself is to love love for we are in essence love. Love is at best the closest match in vibration to our whole self as a word. Surely then, to fall in love with life is to first recognise our whole self, see that we are truly love at first sight, and that in itself will bring the colour of love in all that we perceive outside of us. 

And then we can see that we are what we perceive. When we say, I love you, what we really mean is, I am you. Because love has been taught as something that we are either giving or receiving, it is what is mirrored back to us. Yet, what a fallacy that be, because when mirrored accurately at infancy, what we get reflected back, is just love. And that love will come in an age appropriate tailored package so that when we totally accept our two year olds disposition and understanding we know that to scold chide or admonish them only creates a hole in their whole vision, thereby, illustrating that we are limited in love, that love is conditional and we are not always worthy of love and neither is ours to give at all times going to be.

Most of us have been reflected back a love that is conditional. Our essence which has nothing at all to do the mind will suddenly be at the behest of the mind because it is the mind that will filter the external feedback. The mind will store away each shaving back of the essence of us and produce a false archetype of love.

What that does, is to create a longing in us then to either reach out for the one to fill that gap so that the essence of us is restored or for the one to mimic that limited archetype of love. We either look for the deficiency to be rectified or a similarly deficient other to validate that love as being true since it closely matches that which we were shown as love to be.

Essentially, we are “love”- we are the result of creative energy in motion. Love is motion. 

The big hurdle we have and face with a love that is that unconditional totally free and our entire make up, is that it goes against what our physical or rather biological self has encoded as being love. The love we know is borne of mind and that we think is someone spiritual or divine even that is I’m afraid to say, a mental aberration. For us to experience the totality of that unconditional love we have to let the false self go and this in itself is so scary that most of us can live through whole life spans and more without as much as peeling off the false self. 

From conception to birth the foetus will start to create an imprint of “love”; the core wounds and belief systems start to meld. And these will continue and become more ingrained and carved as we develop our ego self and mind.

Our ego and mind know that to imagine a love that is unconditional and to dare to even try to taste the elixir of a self that is untainted and perfectly formed is self sacrilege. The ego wouldn’t dare to imagine that we are pure or that we are essentially good. It’s too much and too “unknown”.

So we continue to live half lives and believe that we are the false self and with the personality including any belief systems remain.

No healing can take place as long as the false self is still in charge. 

Dare to plunge into the totality of you – thrown your false self off of you – and what that means is all that you repeatedly do, stop ✋. Find what you do to either push you or not. What’s the core wound? What’s your belief? What is limiting you? If you are doing too much perhaps you suffer from a belief that you are not lovable and therefore compensate that by over giving thinking that will heal you. But you see, you are instead adding more insult to injury because to feel more lovable you must know you are inherently love. Many such core beliefs exist but seldom can we locate these because the false self stays in the way.

Are you ready to step out of your comfort zone and into the infinite unconditional pure love that is your essence so that you also manifest the same?