With awareness as the Master key you are always on a winner. Change is constant and our openness makes this transition smooth and simple. What happens when we realise that the root of so much that doesn’t go to our hearts desires is low self esteem but you still see no change?
What happens after you have become aware? A void is created in place of the self limiting belief. Leave the void to be.
Have you found the root of the low self esteem? In obviously not knowing your full potential of you as you because you were told you were not good enough or you never had the space to build the courage to be yourself. You had to find a mask to wear almost each time the power of you wanted to show up for you. You couldn’t do it.
Now you can because you got your power of you back. The next step is getting it into action. Each time you have an opportunity in which the you in you wants to take a stand then do. BUT, magic happens when you simply acknowledge and heal the root of the lack of power of self. Suddenly you will stop attracting situations that make you want to have your say, or act contrary just so you can stand out, and even find ways of being “free” so you can have an outlet of expression.
When we come out of the cycle of low self esteem we no longer feel the urge or need to be other than just be. Nothing will present itself to you that is not you. You will have found the power of you. For example, if you resist the “system”, that will go, and a new found you will no longer need the push and pull. You won’t need to fight for you anymore at all. You won’t even need to tailor a course that is more yours because yours will arrive as is and be yours as is.
Make sense?
And this is why it is paramount to give your toddler the space to be and give them the opportunity to keep their sense of self nurtured and healthy. Their sense of self needs to grow and it won’t of it is met with disapproval or your own needs that the child is meeting in consciously. Sometimes we hold on too tight to our children as a way of ensuring our own inner child remains safe. Are you?
Set yourself free. Cut the crap you tell yourself everyday about how things should be or how you want to change the world and begin to look at your own self to check in to see how your world came to be as it is because you created it.
Dare to create another!